Friday, September 24, 2010

Friends

On September 18th Chile celebrated the bicentennial of their country's independence. I celebrated here at home with Jared and some good friends from our mission eating us some good ol' completos (amazing how much tomato and avocado can improve a hot dog). I topped that off with some Facebook stalking the next day, looking at all the pictures my Chilean friends posted of the festivities down there. I always get a little trunky when I look at their pictures, but these ones in particular really got me feeling emotional. Besides the typical cueca dancing, empanadas, and extreme quantities of soda, I saw in these pictures a family I taught, now more than three years after their baptism, celebrating with their ward family. The bishop is hugging the mother, the father is assisting with the cooking at the grill, and they are having a wonderful time. They were fellowshipped, nurtured, embraced, and now they are clearly at home in their ward and in the gospel. I've never worried about these people because of this exemplary ward. There is no doubt in my mind that if every ward was like this one, there would be no new member lost. I wept over Facebook for a good 10 minutes (don't underestimate its influence), feeling so grateful for this ward that is taking care of some of my special people, and realizing just how important friends are.

Here's a little photo tribute to the importance of friends.

It has been a week full of mission memories. Here some of us are welcoming a mission friend from Chile to Utah. He's moving his family here in a couple months which is HUGE. Pretty awesome to already have friends waiting for you on the other side of the world. Grant is in the picture. He is the baby in the back--too busy socializing to be sitting with his own parents.



And if that picture doesn't say friendship, check out these little guys.


Last Friday my friend Lyndsey and her little Jack came to visit. Grant let Jack borrow his toy, and Jack let Grant borrow his hand to suck on. Quite the budding friendship. I laugh every time I look at this picture. How did they know to hold hands and look at the camera? I promise it was not posed.

Thursday, September 16, 2010

The Mystery of the White Scrunchy Blanket


I have decided to officially become a blogger tonight. I thought that in order to make a debut on this blog scene I would need a fancy introduction--a prologue, a pivotal moment of some sort to start from, but I just can't deal with the pressure or work of backtracking. That being said, my little blog begins today.

It starts with a white scrunchy blanket that made the foot of our bed its home about a month ago. I thought it was a lovely blanket from the first time I saw it in that blessed store, Ikea. I saw the potential of its unique, gauzy texture and thought it would be a great prop for baby pictures. I purchased it without hesitation. Indeed, it has been used in many a picture of my sweet boy. However, I am starting to wonder a little bit about this scrunchy blanket. It has had influence in this family that I wasn't expecting, and frankly that I'm not so sure I like.

Reason #1. Jared has not slept under the sheets of our bed since the blanket arrived. Summer nights are hot. We all know this. Before the blanket however, Jared would just sleep under the sheets and keep the comforter down--you know, like most people do when they get hot at night. I would keep my side up because I don't find the heat uncomfortable and find the fluffiness of the duvet cozy. In those days we had a good thing going on--he was sheets only, and I was sheets plus duvet. There was no restriction of bed space. I could toss and turn and kick my legs about as I pleased. I could even play a little footsie with my husband if I wanted to. Now, he sleeps ON TOP of everything with--you guessed it--the scrunchy blanket stretched from under his toes all the way tucked up under his chin. When I question this behavior, he says that the blanket feels better than the sheet. It's cooler, and it's a better texture. I have tried the white blanket, and I don't get it. In the meantime, I am trapped under the covers on my half (third, really) of the bed. Cuddling is not what it used to be. We might as well be in two separate beds!

Reason #2. A few days ago, Grant was "helping me" make the bed. "Making the bed" with Grant starts with Grant watching me from the rocking chair until I get the sheets and comforter situated. Then he moves onto the bed while I arrange the pillows and throw blanket. When I rustled the scrunchy blanket around his face and fanned it up and down above him he seemed entertained. Still, I didn't think much of that. Well, today he woke up super cranky from his nap. I could not get him to relax. There wasn't a position I held him in that could keep him from screaming at full decibel strength. This is not typical. I attempted all that I could to console him, and just as he was starting to calm down, a picture fell from the wall, knocking down a bunch of stuff from a shelf, sending Grant over the edge. I thought of a great idea! "I will give him a little massage with lotion to try to soothe him!" Well, the lotion just happened to be on the floor in my room, so I had to put him down on the bed for a moment to bend down to get it. Well, before I could even stand back up, he had calmed down. I had, inadvertently, placed him on top of . . ..the white scrunchy blanket. It was almost instantaneous. He was clinging to the fabric, bringing it to his little face, and almost cooing! That fast! I had been trying to calm him for at least fifteen minutes! I have to admit, I was appreciative at the time and proceeded to play with Grant under a little "scrunchy blanket tent" for another ten minutes or so.

Well, there you have it. The evidence speaks for itself. It's a good thing the scrunchy white blanket can't cook dinner or nurse babies, or else I might start to feel a little unneeded around here.